Dating is one of the most complicated things in a relationship, specially if you are dating a a man with kids. When you are dating a man with kids, you should be realistic and should know the facts that are related to it.   Below are few steps for you if you are planning to date man who is married.  

The first thing you should be doing when you are dating a married man, make sure that he is a single dad and also find out the kind of relationship he is having with his kids, how much time can he spend with you, how much of importance is he giving his children. If he is not having the prior importance to the kids, then its high time that you rethink abut dating that particular married man.

Communicate with the man whether he can handle these kind of dating situations if you are planning to get into a deep relationship. Know this thing, the man will want you to share time with his kids, so you should be Ready for that too.  He will have commitments with his children, so you will have to learn about adjusting.

Give the right time for the relationship to blend with each other. Do not be in a hurry as the man is already married and knows things. Do not avoid the kids when you are on a date with the married man, as he may not want the kids to be left alone. So take them too with you.  This will also create a good relationship with the married man.

Always remember that his EX will always be lingering in his mind, so you should also learn to accept the fact and act accordingly.  Also do not try overstep the children's live but give them your support. By doing so, you can also get the good will of the kids, which will be adding points to in gaining the trust of the man.  

When you are dealing the children, maintain patience.  You can get to them slowly and not within minutes. Let your man discipline his children.