|What is love? What is sex?|
Love is not love when its empirical extensions are very much limited to love alone. It is very evident that love can never linger on its own without Sex being a part of love. The dualities, love and sex, are existence that can never be ripped off from a mind which is flying high in spirits.
The divinity of love is experienced only when we have the momentary glimpse of the divine. Not always, love has its own dimensions and love can even go spaces till eternity. Love can never fail neither love can never win. Love is always love.
Quote from Osho
“Falling in love you remain a child; rising in love you mature. And by and by love becomes not a relationship, it becomes a state of your being. Then it is not that you love this and you don’t love that, no—you are simply love.”
Normal & Tantric Sex :
The first one, the normal Sex is known to everyone which includes all living beings right from the humans, animals and plants (Pollination). This type of sex is very destructive and not creative. The question arises how can we be very creative in having sex or intercourse ? Yes it possible and we shall see it later as the post objective is not about how to be creative in sex but what is the difference between Normal Sex and Tantric Sex ?
The normal sex is just like sneezing. All your energies are thrown out and you become relaxed. As it is mentioned normal sex is like sneezing, you have that tension then all of sudden you become relaxed. This is what is called normal sex. Yes, absolutely normal sex is very fine and is very therapeutic, helps you in relaxation and nothing more than that.
The tantric sex act is basically, diametrically opposite and different. The basic act of tantric sex is not let out your energy and to relieve it in the name of ejaculation. Tantric sex is to be in the act without ejaculation, without throwing energy out; to remain in the act merged -- just at the beginning part of the act, not the end part.
The quality of sex is totally different. Two things exist. Two types of climaxes, two types of orgasm exist and the basic things is that we do not understand it. The first type of climax and orgasm is known to all and this is what we have been doing. We reach the peak, ejaculation happens then we are not able to move forward further. The energy gets exhausted. The action becomes non-voluntary. In normal sex, sex is used as a tranquilizer, you can relax, you can sleep well but nothing more than that.